3 Fatal Mistakes When Ending A Relationship

We make many mistakes that we need to learn from. However, there are some very negative that we are not aware of when ending a relationship.

Some of them are unavoidable. Emotions play tricks on us. In addition, we also depend a lot on the circumstances in which we have been involved to end the relationship.

And it is not the same to end a relationship because love has ended or passion has definitely extinguished its flame than if this decision has been made as a result of infidelity or a very painful deception.

Today we will discover 3 mistakes we make at the end of a relationship. Familiarizing ourselves and reflecting on them will allow us not to commit them again and see the situation from new perspectives.

1. You are not able to turn the page after ending the relationship

One of the big mistakes you can make at the end of a relationship is to consider your ex-partner someone still important and present in your life.

It is difficult to let go of someone with whom you have shared experiences and even years of your life. You’ve gotten used to their presence and you both adopted certain routines. Now that it’s gone, you feel like you’re on a tight rope.

However, the sooner you turn the page the better. You have to accept that the relationship is over, that there is no going back and that your life goes on. You have a lot to experience!

Staying anchored in the past will cause you to suffer in vain and not be able to continue enjoying life. So, knowing this, how can you act to change this situation?

• You have time for yourself, so take advantage of it. Do everything that you did not do with your partner, seek new hobbies, meet more with your friends and see more of your family.
• Adopt new routines such as taking a walk or running early in the morning, having a coffee alone in that cafeteria that you like so much while reading the newspaper … Whatever!

• Think of yourself, take care of yourself and pamper yourself. A mistake is to believe that your ex is going to keep watching over you. Why don’t you start to be aware of yourself?  Perhaps you have forgotten a bit about yourself when you were in a relationship.

2. You expect something from your ex

At the end of a relationship you may not be aware of it, but you hope that something will be returned to you by your ex-partner.

A little proof that your ex had really loved you when he was with you, that he intends to keep in touch or that he cares about you.

This is nothing more than the great fear you have of letting go of that relationship that has ended. The big mistake of expecting something from the other person is that you don’t give them the time they need to go through their own grief.

You keep talking to her, you share your feelings. Thus, without realizing it, you may overwhelm her.

It is clear that you need to express yourself with someone who understands you, who understands you. However, you both need to be alone, to let go in order to move forward.

Imagine that your ex has no interest in listening to you. Think about if I did the same, would you be bored by what I wanted to tell you?

Keep all of this in mind. Perhaps your intention to wait for something is the result of your sadness because that relationship has come to an end.

3. Your ex is the protagonist of your conversations

Another of the big mistakes when ending a relationship is keeping your ex as the main protagonist in all your conversations.

It is clear that you have to vent and talk about it. However, must you repeat a thousand times what others already know? Complain over and over again about what can no longer be solved?

Doing this will prevent you from getting over the breakup, while keeping someone who will no longer be a part of your life well present.

Other ways to keep your ex present is to hold on to whatever reminds you of him. A serious mistake that will make your pain last.

Have you made any of these mistakes when ending a relationship? Trying not to fall for them will reduce the time to get over the break.

Let’s stop holding on to something that is already over. This only hurts ourselves.