Let’s see why freeing yourself from resentment is essential to living fully. As long as we have resentment in the heart there will be no room for forgiveness and for cleansing the soul.
Resentment is an anguish, a sadness that we feel and that manifests itself as a stab of pain that cannot be removed with painkillers. We have all been offended to a greater or lesser extent at times. Only if forgiveness does not appear, resentment and hostility begin to develop.
Resentment: the resentment that weighs on us
Resentment is a bitter and chronic memory of an injury that we have received and that time alone has not been able to erase. Deep down, there is the hope of revenge as a way to end this painful feeling.
In this sense, resentment is characterized by generating a host of negative emotions, such as hatred, anger and sadness. Likewise, the psychologist and professor Robert Enright states in his book “The Forgiven Life” that anger and negative thoughts are central characteristics of resentment.
At this point, it is clear that this resentment will have implications in our daily lives. Regardless of whether we feel dejected and unfortunate feelings predominate, we are not leaving room for positive emotions that do us good.
In this regard, Enright warns that those who harbor resentment may be reduced in their willingness to have good behavior with others. From resentment to hatred there is a very short journey, to the point that we can cross the line without realizing it.
Resentment is an enormous weight that does not allow us to move forward. It blocks us affectively and does not let the wisdom of time fulfill its healing role. Getting rid of resentment will take away excess baggage that does not belong to us and that only hurts us.
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